Yesterday, watched the VMA 2007 with my hosmets. Hehe.. Bukan men lagi kitorang mengutuk britney. My god, die mcm malas nak perform. Takde excitement cam dulu. Mcm a boring chore jer die wat. Ms tgk die perform tu, mcm cannot relate die ngan the 'legendary ms britney spears' tu. Cam totally diff person. Hehe..
Anyway, berbaloi gak la menunggu tuh..Tgk justin perform mak aiii...kitorang kat umah tuh, goes gaga...hehe...*drool* comey btul la mamat nih..Tgk die perform ngan 50 cent pun, comey giler..."she wants it, she wants it" haha..
giler kejap...:p
Baby this a new age, you like my new craze
Let's get together maybe we can start a new phase
The smokes got the club all hazy, spotlights don't do you justice baby
Why don't you come over here, you got me saying
Aayooh
I'm tired of using technology, why don't you sit down on top of me
Aayooh
I'm tired of using technology, I need you right in front of me
Ooh, she wants it, uh uh, she wants it
Ooh, she wants it, uh uh, she wants it
Ooh, she wants it, uh uh (soo), I got to give it to her
Your hips, your thighs, you got me hypnotized, let me tell you
Your hips, your thighs, you got me hypnotized, let me tell you
Your hips, your thighs, you got me hypnotized, let me tell you
Your hips, your thighs, you got me hypnotized, let me tell you
Hhmmmm....*day dream*
Pastu, yg kitorang dpt observe smalam is the female performers and presenters, mostly ader big butt n thighs.. kitorang cam wonder, fesyen ke skrang nih. haha. so im not the only one yg ader problem with my thigh. Nyampah tgk, bile gemuk skit, situ la naik dulu. Bodo.. Hehe...Tp tak kisah, bulan pose nih i manage menurun kan my badan. Even my tite jeans dah tak tite dah. Huhu...sy suke..like my lil niece ckp kat that someone 'nana tak gemuk pun, nana kurus jer' Oh yeah...hahaha...
*wide grin*
Monday, September 24, 2007
Sunday, September 23, 2007
"Love shouldnt be A Job to Do"
This quote i amik dr jerry mcguire movie. Watch it yesterday on cinemax. Funny that i always cry when tgk crite2 camnih. Tho i dah tgk byk kali. It is just so sweet. Tho i tot malaysian guys tak as romantic as yg slalu dlm movies or dlm filem 'cinta' tu, maybe i tot wrong. I mean, maybe romantic org malaysia nih len kot. Ntah la. Tp yepp, there are a few situation yg moved me sgt2 yg i cried jugak. Bukan nangis sedih, tp kinda heppi. N because the moment is just so sweet.
My bestfren, oja, doesnt understand. Die ckp i poyo. I tak kisah. :p
After all said n done, i dun mind. I dun mind if one day he realize yg he doesnt love me that much. I wudnt mind if one day he decided yg he dont want to spend the rest of his life with me. I wudnt mind. I wud be devastated, n sad for some time. But i will terima it. I redha if that's the fate yg i kena face. I love him so dearly rite now yg i just want him to be hepi. N if hepi means yg die have to be with someone else, then, i'll wish him all the bes.
For now, its all about us, him and me. I love him, n i do know yg he loves me too. So, for now, i'll live this moment to the fullest n pray for the best. Amin...
My bestfren, oja, doesnt understand. Die ckp i poyo. I tak kisah. :p
After all said n done, i dun mind. I dun mind if one day he realize yg he doesnt love me that much. I wudnt mind if one day he decided yg he dont want to spend the rest of his life with me. I wudnt mind. I wud be devastated, n sad for some time. But i will terima it. I redha if that's the fate yg i kena face. I love him so dearly rite now yg i just want him to be hepi. N if hepi means yg die have to be with someone else, then, i'll wish him all the bes.
For now, its all about us, him and me. I love him, n i do know yg he loves me too. So, for now, i'll live this moment to the fullest n pray for the best. Amin...
Saturday, September 22, 2007
Al-Fatihah
In memories of Adik Nurin Jazlin.
Following this case, hati sape yg tak sedih? Sape yg tak wonder? How could a person calling himself a human can do this to a child? Who in his right mind sanggup buat camtuh? I just dun know wut to say. The feeling is so strong towards this case. Hatred to the person yg did this to a child, sedih, kesian, wonder. Criminal cases kat malaysia nih makin menjadi2. And to take advatage on a child. This is so wrong. :'(
N smalam, i saw this tv series. On physchopath killer. He claimed yg he was the messager of God. N cam die ingat die bleh hukum org yg wat salah. Giler physcho la. Ntah ape ntah nak jadi ngan dunia skrang nih.
Imagine wut the world will be for our children or children's children nnt. Just to think of the prospect pun dah wat i shudder. Nauzubillah. I really hope this world can be a better place.
Amin.
Following this case, hati sape yg tak sedih? Sape yg tak wonder? How could a person calling himself a human can do this to a child? Who in his right mind sanggup buat camtuh? I just dun know wut to say. The feeling is so strong towards this case. Hatred to the person yg did this to a child, sedih, kesian, wonder. Criminal cases kat malaysia nih makin menjadi2. And to take advatage on a child. This is so wrong. :'(
N smalam, i saw this tv series. On physchopath killer. He claimed yg he was the messager of God. N cam die ingat die bleh hukum org yg wat salah. Giler physcho la. Ntah ape ntah nak jadi ngan dunia skrang nih.
Imagine wut the world will be for our children or children's children nnt. Just to think of the prospect pun dah wat i shudder. Nauzubillah. I really hope this world can be a better place.
Amin.
Saturday, September 8, 2007
Monday, August 27, 2007
Last Weekend
Last weekend can be concluded as one of the bess weekend in my life. :)
I went to Penang to go to Elia's wedding. N most of the time spent with the one i love. Elia's solemnisation was nice. Their event was simple n sweet. :) Afzal n Elia are meant each other. N to see the union of these two great ppl are just so so so sweet. Hehe...Tho penat, we both had great time photographing the bride n groom. Well not me, i was merely 'constructing' the post. Huhu...
Well, bess jugak dpt catch up with old frens. Farid n Lisa was at the wedding. Jumpe bf lisa. N anak farid yg comey tuh. Tp dlm duk catch up catch up with each other, we neglect the ceramah or khutbah the tok kadi was given. Then tetibe kitorang tgk org dah doa. Rupenyer2 elia dah slamat jadi isteri org time tuh. Without her or us sedar. Bcoz the initial plan was they wud call elia out when its time for the akd nikah. Unfortunately, sbb tok kadi duduk atas bantal yg suppossedly elia duduk, so they tak panggil elia kluar. Poor elia, she missed the most impt moment of her life...luckily there was a video shoot. tp kinda a bummer jugak la.
Anyway, it was his bday. We had great time on the day before. That's when i bought him his present, assuming dat we'd both be too tired after the photoshoot that we wouldnt be able to round the malls for psp. N turns out it was all true. Hehe.. Its a bummer as well, sbb he was cranky n tired, n i wasnt able to put his mood rite. To think it was his bday, n that's how he spent it, its kinda makes me question myself. 'Wud dat sumeone be better than me in dealing with his moods? Wud she be able to cheer him up?' All sorts of mind-poisoning questions. Its not that i didnt try to denied it...But its just me, im the worrier. The over thinking type. I just cudnt help it. Im not blaming him, well he has his reason for not telling them...Hmm...i just hope i can handle it without the feeling of insecurities. In time...I wud...in time...
Luckily sunday was always a lazy day. So we just laid back a bit n had fun just by being and spending time with each other doing basically nothing. Just eating n talking n eating n talking. It was nice. Seriously, it was nice...:)
Oh yes, n it was oja's bday today, so HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY, OJA dear..:)
It was my sis bday yesterday, so HAPPY 32nd BIRTHDAY, K LYNN...:)
N it was my boo's bday on the 25th, so HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY ABG. N as u said, u'r 25 on 25th...:) *Missing U Much Dear, Mwahsss*
Wednesday, August 22, 2007
Melly Goeslow - Gantung
Melly Goeslaw - Gantung
Ku harus menemui cintaku
Mencari tahu hubungan kita
Apa masih atau t’lah berakhir
(*) Kau menggantungkan hubungan ini
Kau diamkan aku tanpa sebab
Maunya apa ku harus bagaimana
Kasih…
Reff I: Sampai kapan kau gantung cerita cintaku
Memberi harapan
Hingga mungkin ku tak sanggup lagi
Dan meninggalkan dirimu hoo…
Detik-detik waktupun terbuang
Teganya kau menggantung cintaku
Bicaralah biar semua pasti
Reff II: Gantungnya hubungan cinta denganmu
Membuatku sakit
Hingga mungkin ku tak sanggup lagi
Dan meninggalkan dirimu hoo…
Ku harus menemui cintaku
Mencari tahu hubungan kita
Apa masih atau t’lah berakhir
(*) Kau menggantungkan hubungan ini
Kau diamkan aku tanpa sebab
Maunya apa ku harus bagaimana
Kasih…
Reff I: Sampai kapan kau gantung cerita cintaku
Memberi harapan
Hingga mungkin ku tak sanggup lagi
Dan meninggalkan dirimu hoo…
Detik-detik waktupun terbuang
Teganya kau menggantung cintaku
Bicaralah biar semua pasti
Reff II: Gantungnya hubungan cinta denganmu
Membuatku sakit
Hingga mungkin ku tak sanggup lagi
Dan meninggalkan dirimu hoo…
Sunday, August 19, 2007
Sumthing I came across
Question: Why do I feel threatened by my partner's opposite-sex friends?
Answer: If your partner is enjoying the company of another person, and that person is someone of the opposite sex from your partner, the answer is pretty obvious: you're worried about your mate becoming sexually attracted to that person, and, well, you know what happens next....
It's quite common for a couple to struggle with the thorny issue of opposite-sex friends. Sometimes the problem arises from one partner refusing to let go of past boyfriends or girlfriends. Individuals who keep the old flames' phone numbers in their contact file believe it doesn't make sense to dispose of the friendship just because the romance fizzled out.
Some opposite-sex relationships spring from the workplace. In many job sites, including the military, men and women work side by side. When put into high-intensity situations, people bond. Some people, even if they're married, think that it's artificial to limit these positive work experiences to the office. They figure that if it feels good to be around their officemate during work, it should feel good spending time together after work as well.
Even though your mate sees lots of good reasons to foster these friendships, you have an even better reason not to: because it threatens your relationship.
You're concerned that if your partner has a friendship with a person today, it could grow into a love affair tomorrow. And you have every reason to be concerned.
The Warning Signs
When one individual shares intimacies with another of the opposite sex, they develop a familiarity that binds them closer together. This connection breeds feelings of "specialness" that leaves each with the sense that they have a unique understanding of each other -- one that other people can't appreciate. The big problem with this arrangement is that it excludes you and directs the energies that should be going into your relationship out toward other people.
Your mate may believe that opposite-sex friendships are harmless because his or her friend is married. But that's just dead wrong! Many friendships outside of marriage start as "just friends" and grow closer and more intimate. Because these friendships are so fresh, interesting and compelling, it's not long before the two people involved start to think they are more compatible than their own life partners. It's a small step from that realization to the development of a full-blown affair, and the destruction of a marriage.
Do you need to be concerned?
Ask yourself these questions:
1. Is the person someone whom your partner would consider "attractive"?
2. Are they spending time together outside of the office (even for office lunches) when other people are not around?
3. Has your partner excluded this "friend" from your life, either by nottelling you when they are meeting, refusing to introduce you, or going into another room to talk on the phone when you are nearby?
4. Does your partner tell you that he or she has the kind of relationship with this friend that you just couldn't understand?
A "yes" to question #1 and any of the other three questions means your partner's friendship may be a threat to your relationship.
If your mate is involved in a special relationship that makes you uncomfortable, don't ignore that feeling. You've got to ask for what you need -- for your mate to end further personal and exclusive friendships with people of the opposite sex. Remember, your partner may not be intending to hurt you, and may honestly feel like there is nothing to worry about. You can help him or her understand your concerns; it may help to read this article together.
Finally, your partner may feel it's rude or unfair to the "friend" to end the exclusivity of the friendship. That may be right, but frankly, not taking action is rude and unfair to you. In all cases, the needs of your relationship outweigh the needs of a friend. After all, you should always be number one on your partner's buddy list.
Answer: If your partner is enjoying the company of another person, and that person is someone of the opposite sex from your partner, the answer is pretty obvious: you're worried about your mate becoming sexually attracted to that person, and, well, you know what happens next....
It's quite common for a couple to struggle with the thorny issue of opposite-sex friends. Sometimes the problem arises from one partner refusing to let go of past boyfriends or girlfriends. Individuals who keep the old flames' phone numbers in their contact file believe it doesn't make sense to dispose of the friendship just because the romance fizzled out.
Some opposite-sex relationships spring from the workplace. In many job sites, including the military, men and women work side by side. When put into high-intensity situations, people bond. Some people, even if they're married, think that it's artificial to limit these positive work experiences to the office. They figure that if it feels good to be around their officemate during work, it should feel good spending time together after work as well.
Even though your mate sees lots of good reasons to foster these friendships, you have an even better reason not to: because it threatens your relationship.
You're concerned that if your partner has a friendship with a person today, it could grow into a love affair tomorrow. And you have every reason to be concerned.
The Warning Signs
When one individual shares intimacies with another of the opposite sex, they develop a familiarity that binds them closer together. This connection breeds feelings of "specialness" that leaves each with the sense that they have a unique understanding of each other -- one that other people can't appreciate. The big problem with this arrangement is that it excludes you and directs the energies that should be going into your relationship out toward other people.
Your mate may believe that opposite-sex friendships are harmless because his or her friend is married. But that's just dead wrong! Many friendships outside of marriage start as "just friends" and grow closer and more intimate. Because these friendships are so fresh, interesting and compelling, it's not long before the two people involved start to think they are more compatible than their own life partners. It's a small step from that realization to the development of a full-blown affair, and the destruction of a marriage.
Do you need to be concerned?
Ask yourself these questions:
1. Is the person someone whom your partner would consider "attractive"?
2. Are they spending time together outside of the office (even for office lunches) when other people are not around?
3. Has your partner excluded this "friend" from your life, either by nottelling you when they are meeting, refusing to introduce you, or going into another room to talk on the phone when you are nearby?
4. Does your partner tell you that he or she has the kind of relationship with this friend that you just couldn't understand?
A "yes" to question #1 and any of the other three questions means your partner's friendship may be a threat to your relationship.
If your mate is involved in a special relationship that makes you uncomfortable, don't ignore that feeling. You've got to ask for what you need -- for your mate to end further personal and exclusive friendships with people of the opposite sex. Remember, your partner may not be intending to hurt you, and may honestly feel like there is nothing to worry about. You can help him or her understand your concerns; it may help to read this article together.
Finally, your partner may feel it's rude or unfair to the "friend" to end the exclusivity of the friendship. That may be right, but frankly, not taking action is rude and unfair to you. In all cases, the needs of your relationship outweigh the needs of a friend. After all, you should always be number one on your partner's buddy list.
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