Monday, December 3, 2007

Knight in Shining Armor? McDreamy?

Alaa...tell me who in her rite mind tak nak to have her own knight in shining armor or mcdreamy? All gals dream to have the rite kind of guy everyday. Sum mite even go to the extend of dating much too often always to end the relationship in conclusion that the person isn't her 'knight in shining armor' nor 'mcdreamy'. When will us come to our senses that there are zero these kinda person for us out there in the real dating scene. (i mean in this era la...i cant know how it was ages ago. when there are real knights still rooming the land. bluwekkk!!)

Dun get me wrong. My love live is still intact - for now. We had had great time together, and a fair share of bad ones. But THIS is not about me ok? :p

It is just dat i came across this webspace on heart to heart problems where there are a lot of whining gals telling this n that. How he is all lovely n sweet but not the rite guy. How lonely they are. Bla bla bla. How he doesnt understand. bla bla bla. Sounds so much like i was a few months back. Rite? Its not im dissing this gals, mind u. I was so much like these gals before. Maybe a lot of gals out there can relate.

Ntah la. In our short life, we had been fed with ideas there's always Mr Rite for us. The thing is we always want this Mr Rite to do the rite things, to say the rite words and act rite all the time up to our standard. My my, this idea of Mr Rite is so not RITE.

Our Mr Rite mite be the Rite one for us but he mite not always be Rite. Like us mite not always be Ms Rite for them. We just need to come with terms with all their shortcomings as they did ours. If we cant get thru this stage, Mr Rite mite not be so Rite for us. This is when we dissed the Mr Rite thing n hope for our fairytale Knight to show up one day and swept us off our feet.

If you think its happening to you...believe me, its short-lived. My parents called it fling or rebound dating. Yeah, we mite get all tingly and blushing and hepi for a while. But it will all passed once we get to know the person better. And we'll start comparing to our Mr Rite. But the very 1st thing we need to do is TO GET OVER THE IDEA OF FAIRYTALE KNIGHTS KINDA GUYS! Come on. To find sumone who wud fight for ur honour or to do all the lady's bidding -like the knight wud do - come on. There are no such person. Even McDreamy mite only be sumone in our dreams.

Yeah ah... I've come to terms with it. Haha... Owh, u've guessed? :p

Hehehe..N yeah I've found my Mr Rite. After all the fights, the shouts, the name calling, the blackmailing n the tears, the dramas's n all. Hahaha....

I just hope that i am Ms Rite for him. :) yeah, i'm with terms with the mr rite thing. I only dun know the other way around. N Im still finding the answers.

*Sighed*

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